Fraya is a trauma-informed psychotherapist and coach, working with individuals and couples in London and online. Fraya works integratively, relationally, and somatically. Integratively means combining different therapeutic approaches and tools to suit your needs. Relationally means working collaboratively and that, principally, it is the therapeutic relationship itself that heals. Somatically means the body – and through embodied practices such as breathwork and focusing on the felt sense, the body’s experience can be incorporated into the healing process.
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The mind-body connection can be thought of as the reciprocal processes occurring between our mind and body, which are intricately linked and continually influencing each other through an ever-flowing source of information. For instance, when we get upset, our muscles contract and tighten, which is the body’s attempt to contain an experience that feels threatening. Similarly, when we are relaxed and breathing calmly and deeply, the tiny hairs inside our lungs send signals to the brain that we are safe, and all is well. These are mind to body and body to mind communications that are always in motion even when we are asleep.
The key transmitter of data between mind and body is the vagus nerve that travels between the brain and many organs of the body such as the heart, lungs, and stomach, for example – which the vagus nerve branches into and relays information back and forth via vagal neurons. Through the pioneering work of Dr Stephen Porges’ Polyvagal Theory, we now understand the chief role of the autonomic nervous system in regulating our emotional/physiological states both in everyday activities where we experience varying degrees of stress, as well as those behaviours associated with trauma that affect our sense of safety and connection. The autonomic nervous system comprises sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems: the former being associated with the fight-or-flight response, and the latter being referred to as the rest and digest state.
Understanding how the nervous system responds to stress and trauma is crucial in therapy, as it helps individuals regain emotional and physiological balance.
Trauma powerfully illustrates the link between mind and body. When faced with danger, the body’s natural response is to enter fight-or-flight mode, triggering a surge of adrenaline and stress hormones. While this survival mechanism was vital in prehistoric times, it can become maladaptive in modern life, causing overreactions to non-threatening situations, such as social interactions or work stress.
Unlike animals, humans often struggle to process trauma fully, leading to unresolved tension stored in the body. This can result in chronic dysregulation, where the nervous system repeatedly reacts to perceived threats in exaggerated ways.
There is a saying that goes, “you can’t talk your way out of trauma”. A therapist who understands the mind-body connection can supplement talking therapy with body psychotherapy or somatic therapy. This type of work focuses on helping you reconnect with your body and understand how your physical sensations relate to your thoughts and emotions. Through exercises and guided attention, you can learn to identify and regulate your body’s response to stress.
A therapist skilled in the mind-body connection may incorporate:
There are many self-care practices that support nervous system regulation and trauma recovery, including:
Final Thoughts
Somatic therapy can help people to understand what they are experiencing in their bodies and how physical sensations can give us information that is sometimes inaccessible to the mind through just talking. Mind-body practices can help us to understand the body holistically as a whole system and provide an opportunity to learn how to manage many confusing or distressing thoughts, feelings, and sensations and then, to integrate what can feel disconnected, separate and/or fractured. Working with the mind and body can be a powerful way of working with deep woundings as part of an overall piece of therapy where there is safety and a good therapeutic relationship.